Everyday I am honoured to receive new profiles from singles looking for love. And it’s exciting that perhaps through my process and dating advice, they will meet their soul mate. However occasionally I will read a profile which makes me wonder – what are they bringing to the table?
It’s so easy to list the qualities we want in a future partner, yet most of us do not actively embody those traits and characteristics. And that absence and inactivity indicates laziness and a degree of selfishness.
Some people say they are waiting to meet someone before they change jobs, or start a new hobby. Some are waiting to meet that perfect person before taking an overseas trip. Some want to date a fit, athletic person yet don’t exercise themselves. Some have a seemingly endless list of wants and needs which are all directed for someone else to fill. And some don’t have anything that they’re passionate about.
Love may come to you, but there’s no guarantee. So stop waiting. Find your passion. Do the things that you are waiting to do NOW. Project outwards what you would like to receive and embody the traits that you are looking for in your ideal companion. At the very least, you will begin to live the life you’ve always wanted to.